May 14, 2008

Why People Fail - Part I

Filed under: Misc Stuff — admin @ 3:23 pm

Have you ever worked on a project that didn’t end up the way you intended? Maybe it was something as simple as sprucing up the garden. It could have been as ambitious as starting out on a new business venture. Whether a project succeeds or fails can be simplified by how well the following three basic factors were done.

  1. Clear end result
  2. Taking corrective action
  3. Continuing until the project is successful

In Part I of this series of articles I will discuss the concept of having a clear end result in mind.

While a clear end result is often thought of as a goal, it is actually a much more precisely defined goal. Some people think of goals as making lots of money by the time they reach a certain age, or some want to be good at golf. The difference between a “clear end result” and what others define as “goals” is specificity.

“It has to be around here somewhere…”

If you don’t know what the end result is, how can you ever take effective action to get there? For example, if I wanted to make “a lot of money” by the time I was 30, then how do I even begin? Does a lot of money mean $100,000 dollars or $10,000,000? While I have never made $10,000,000, the plans and actions that a person would need to take is much different than a person who wants to make 100,000 a year or 50,000 a year. It’s a cliché — but true, “If you don’t know where you are going, then any road you take will get you there”.

If you never take the time to define your end results, then you will find that you will end up nowhere near where you wanted to end up. From a purely motivational perspective, vagueness has no excitement to it. If I just want to be good at golf, there is not a whole lot there that is going to get me to the driving range or to the golf course. If I want to be better at golf then somebody who irritates me, then I have a very clear bar to measure myself against, and a lot more motivation to reach my goals. Vague, pie in the sky goals have no power to motivate and make any planning towards achieving success impossible.

Most people run the projects in their lives with a vague idea of how they want things to turn out. Doing what everyone else does will get you average results. Decide on how you want things to turn out. You may change that decision as you move along, but it is much better to keep things clear from the outset rather than vague. The word “decide” means “To settle conclusively all contention or uncertainty about”.
Cut yourself off from all other vague notions of thought and give yourself permission to have a crystal clear focus of your outcome. A clear outcome has a clear indicator of success. If you’re currently working on a project, then do the following steps.

Action Steps:

On a clean piece of paper answer the following questions:

  1. What do I want out of this?
  2. What is the project supposed to accomplish?
  3. What is the bare minimum that I could be happy with?
  4. What is the best possible outcome for this project?

These questions are to help clarify your thinking. A lot of books will tell you to dream big, which is a great thing, but if its too huge your mind can shut down on it. Build
a stairs to the top of your mountain, you don’t need to jump to the top tomorrow.

If you are coming up blank or with some uncertainty about defining your goal, then ask yourself the following questions:

  1. What is keeping me from defining my end result?
  2. Is what is keeping me from defining my end result more important to me then the kind of results I could have?

Remember: Your end result can change over time, so get started!

Charlie Hung is the founder of Vanguard Coaching which blends modern spirituality and psychology into a joyful and practical way of living. http://www.vanguardcoaching.com

May 8, 2008

Virtual Gambling: What You Must Know Regarding It All

Filed under: Internet Betting, Misc Stuff, Virtual Gambling — admin @ 2:38 am

The bother of frequenting a meat space gaming room provides plenty of reasons to forget about it if avoidable. At the end of the day, those traffic jams, the bother, and chores it involves seem not worth the difficulty for that chance of gambling at meat space gaming room, nevertheless if you’re the type who simply enjoys card-playing then choosing betting rooms exploiting the net should be the obvious answer. Online payout casino - all the top games!

For this there’s no reason for you to abandon your desk for a stint of online betting because you will do everything from your home office if you own a pc and a broadband internet connection. Nevertheless, you’re advised to read on as there are quite a few pointers which you should know about regarding online betting, in particular if you’re still inexperienced regarding this field. So, defuse that exhilaration to pore over what follows. Here is our crisp blueprint that elucidates what to observe if you’re tracing a trust-worthy online betting address. The foremost thing which I as a shrewd Web gambler should target is an online betting webpage of the sort that can offer high winning odds. Further to this, here are a few select additional details regarding locating your virtual video poker webpage.

You positively must be sure to make certain the virtual video poker webpage is verifiably licensed, for example by checking the government certified operating authorization on the casino site’s pages. If it’s impossible to localize any government certified operating authorization on a chosen virtual video poker webpage, do not remotely think of wagering on that site. After that you will want to scrupulously review the assortment of promotional deals that the virtual video poker webpage has decided to offer you. Another key bit of advice would be to place your wager at the outset in modest amounts instead of squandering way too much right from the start. First thing, check the soundness of the virtual video poker outfit before provoking any grave adversity– in particular financial ones… And now, my last crucial recommendation regarding virtual betting. It can obviously only be always to call to mind that all kinds of gaming establishments should be actually about recreation and not so much about big dollars. Betting isn’t a job, but, rather a hobby which intends to make you cheery and your overall life sweet.

So, having complied with the advice above, you can go ahead defer to the lure of virtual video poker!