It’s a given I’m not the kind of eligible man, comfortably interested in sitting at home solo every weekend. I’d wager you guys probably never pegged me to write a post about great dating and relationships. Go figure.
Dependence is a fixable popular feeling and entirely neglected in my values. But I do have a tender heart. I’ll level with you, I had to squelch a 3-year cohabitation that meant something to me but just deadended for both of us. So you would go on record saying its been a while since I was dating. I’m missing the dating with great expectations I once did.
Single life has had its perks so far. I know one thing, I don’t know how to stay in peacefully devowering Lost episodes off the torrents. The number one factor behind this bout of incidental dating lameness? We’re not in high school, and everyone else is boring.
My former football friend, Jim, who doesn’t know the meaning of dating boredom, informed me he’s currently shooting from the same blind as I am. He linked me to the Great Expectations Dating service. Not usually my thing, but I enjoy meeting quality women around my age. So I decided to make a change and joined.
The point is, there ain’t room to grovel by not having plans when ya haven’t called anyone. As our mentor and basketball coach Jason Smith told me when his wife wasn’t looking, “If you don’t run you can’t score, Jeff.”
The man didn’t know my name. But, he was on the money in a good old fashioned way. He meant well to everyone. The fun series of singles events in Dallas here could have overloaded the old man’s mind.
Through great expectations I talked to dozens accomplished and desirable ladies that hold my expectations. I actually had a blast with a few indisputably incredible people. I ducked out of the mixer a little early following a promising exchange of numbers, and even grew some social networking acquaintances for my business. Success.
Take action. Can’t be happy if you sit the bench. Don’t sell yourself short, believe in your own great expectations for for your own good.
Sincerely,
Josiah